A Tamil Wedding Feast
Wedding Breakfast
& Lunch Buffet Menu
A Tamil vegetarian feast,
served in two sittings.
Thirty-one preparations across breakfast and lunch — composed, refined and offered at Tamil weddings for generations.

Lunch
Paruppu / Vellam Payasam
பருப்பு பாயசம்Paruppu / Vellam Payasam
பருப்பு பாயசம்
Toor dal and jaggery sweet, simmered slow in ghee with fried cashews.
✦ Contains dairy & nutsSweets
இனிப்புSweets
இனிப்பு
Gulab Jamun: soft milk solids in rose-scented syrup.
◇ Gulab Jamun
✦ Contains nuts & dairyCucumber Thayir Pachidi
தயிர் பச்சடிCucumber Thayir Pachidi
தயிர் பச்சடி
Cool yoghurt relish with cucumber, tempered with mustard.
✦ Contains dairyManga Pachidi
மாங்காய் பச்சடிManga Pachidi
மாங்காய் பச்சடி
Sweet-sour raw mango relish tempered with mustard and curry leaf.
Aviyal
அவியல்Aviyal
அவியல்
A regal medley of seven vegetables bound in coconut, curd and coconut oil.
✦ Contains dairyOkra Morkozhambu
வெண்டைக்காய் மோர்க்குழம்புOkra Morkozhambu
வெண்டைக்காய் மோர்க்குழம்பு
Lady's fingers in a buttermilk-laced gravy with coconut and green chilli.
✦ Contains dairySambar Rice (Bisibelebath)
சாம்பார் சாதம்Sambar Rice (Bisibelebath)
சாம்பார் சாதம்
Rice and toor dal slow-cooked with tamarind, spice and a hint of ghee.
✦ Contains nuts & dairyTomato Rasam
தக்காளி ரசம்Tomato Rasam
தக்காளி ரசம்
A thin, peppery, tamarind-tomato broth — bright with garlic and coriander.
White Rice (Sona Masoori)
சாதம்White Rice (Sona Masoori)
சாதம்
Steamed Sona Masoori, the quiet canvas for every curry and dal.
Paruppu
பருப்புParuppu
பருப்பு
Plain toor dal, cooked soft and placed atop rice as the first blessing.
Ghee
நெய்Ghee
நெய்
Warm clarified butter, poured in a golden stream over paruppu and rice.
✦ Contains dairyBeans Paruppuusili
பீன்ஸ் பருப்புச்சிலிBeans Paruppuusili
பீன்ஸ் பருப்புச்சிலி
Green beans and split lentils, dry-fried with coconut and red chilli.
Potato Fry (Urulai Kaara Kari)
உருளைக்கிழங்கு வறுவல்Potato Fry (Urulai Kaara Kari)
உருளைக்கிழங்கு வறுவல்
Baby potatoes in chilli and turmeric, fried crisp and golden.
Vazhakka Chips
வாழைக்காய் சிப்ஸ்Vazhakka Chips
வாழைக்காய் சிப்ஸ்
Thin raw banana slices, fried to a fragile amber crunch with salt and pepper.
Appalam
அப்பளம்Appalam
அப்பளம்
Sun-dried lentil wafer, fried to a blistered, shattering crisp. Small to medium size.
Paruppu Vadai
பருப்பு வடைParuppu Vadai
பருப்பு வடை
Crisp toor dal fritters, studded with whole peppercorns and curry leaf.
Puli Saadham (Tamarind Rice)
புளிசாதம்Puli Saadham (Tamarind Rice)
புளிசாதம்
Tamarind rice coated in fried peanuts, mustard seed and dried chilli.
✦ Contains nutsChappathi / Phulka Roti
சப்பாத்திChappathi / Phulka Roti
சப்பாத்தி
Soft whole-wheat flatbreads, blistered briefly over an open flame.
Paneer Butter Masala
பன்னீர் பட்டர் மசாலாPaneer Butter Masala
பன்னீர் பட்டர் மசாலா
Cottage cheese in a rich, buttery tomato gravy with kasuri methi.
✦ Contains nuts & dairyCurd Rice
தயிர் சாதம்Curd Rice
தயிர் சாதம்
Cool, lightly set yoghurt folded into rice, tempered with mustard and curry leaf. The closing note.
✦ Contains dairyMango Pickle
மாங்காய் ஊறுகாய்Mango Pickle
மாங்காய் ஊறுகாய்
Aged mango cured in mustard, fenugreek and gingelly oil. Use sparingly.
Mango Lassi
மாங்கோ லஸ்ஸிMango Lassi
மாங்கோ லஸ்ஸி
Sweet mango blended with cool yoghurt, cardamom and a touch of rose water.
✦ Contains dairy
First Time at the Table
How to Eat
Eight small courtesies. None required — all quietly observed.
- 01
Help yourself, buffet style
This is a self-serve Tamil wedding buffet. Collect a plate, spoon and fork at the start of the line, and move along unhurried. Take small portions — you can always return for more.
- 02
Breakfast — start with the tiffin
Begin with idly, medhu vada and mini uthappam on your plate. Spoon sambar (gotsu) generously over the idly and vada. Place the three chutneys — coconut, pudhina, tomato — in small mounds alongside for dipping.
- 03
Breakfast — pongal and podi
Add a scoop of pongal next. Drizzle a little milagai podi mixed with oil on the side of the plate and dab each bite of idly or pongal into it. Finish breakfast with pineapple kesari as the sweet note, and a tumbler of filter coffee or tea.
- 04
Lunch — open with payasam
At a Tamil wedding, the meal opens (not closes) with payasam. Take a small bowl of paruppu or vellam payasam first, then move on. The sweets — mysorepak, jangiri — sit beside it.
- 05
Lunch — build the rice plate
Serve white rice in the centre of the plate. Pour paruppu over it and add a small spoon of ghee. Eat this first mouthful plain — it is the traditional opening of the meal. Beans paruppusili, potato fry, vazhakka chips, appalam and paruppu vadai sit around the rice as accompaniments.
- 06
Lunch — the rice procession
Follow this order: paruppu rice → sambar rice → puli saadham (tamarind rice). Take a fresh helping of rice each time. Chappathi with paneer butter masala can be eaten on the side, or as a course of its own before the rice.
- 07
Lunch — close with curd rice
Curd rice is always the final savoury course — it cools and settles the meal. Pair it with a small spoon of mango pickle. Sip mango lassi alongside or after to finish.
- 08
Spoon, fork and pace
Use the spoon for rice, sambar, payasam and curd rice; the fork helps with chappathi, vadai and dry items. Eat slowly between courses — a Tamil wedding meal is meant to be savoured, not rushed.
The Blessing
The gift of food, considered the highest gift of all. May this meal carry the blessing it was made with.
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