A Tamil Wedding Feast

Wedding Breakfast
& Lunch Buffet Menu

A Tamil vegetarian feast,
served in two sittings.

Thirty-one preparations across breakfast and lunch — composed, refined and offered at Tamil weddings for generations.

June 24, 2026
Breakfast7:30 am
Lunch11:30 am
Peacock with floral motifs
II11 am — 12:30 pm

Lunch

  • Paruppu / Vellam Payasam

    பருப்பு பாயசம்

    Toor dal and jaggery sweet, simmered slow in ghee with fried cashews.

    Contains dairy & nuts
  • Sweets

    இனிப்பு

    Gulab Jamun: soft milk solids in rose-scented syrup.

    Gulab Jamun

    Contains nuts & dairy
  • Cucumber Thayir Pachidi

    தயிர் பச்சடி

    Cool yoghurt relish with cucumber, tempered with mustard.

    Contains dairy
  • Manga Pachidi

    மாங்காய் பச்சடி

    Sweet-sour raw mango relish tempered with mustard and curry leaf.

  • Aviyal

    அவியல்

    A regal medley of seven vegetables bound in coconut, curd and coconut oil.

    Contains dairy
  • Okra Morkozhambu

    வெண்டைக்காய் மோர்க்குழம்பு

    Lady's fingers in a buttermilk-laced gravy with coconut and green chilli.

    Contains dairy
  • Sambar Rice (Bisibelebath)

    சாம்பார் சாதம்

    Rice and toor dal slow-cooked with tamarind, spice and a hint of ghee.

    Contains nuts & dairy
  • Tomato Rasam

    தக்காளி ரசம்

    A thin, peppery, tamarind-tomato broth — bright with garlic and coriander.

  • White Rice (Sona Masoori)

    சாதம்

    Steamed Sona Masoori, the quiet canvas for every curry and dal.

  • Paruppu

    பருப்பு

    Plain toor dal, cooked soft and placed atop rice as the first blessing.

  • Ghee

    நெய்

    Warm clarified butter, poured in a golden stream over paruppu and rice.

    Contains dairy
  • Beans Paruppuusili

    பீன்ஸ் பருப்புச்சிலி

    Green beans and split lentils, dry-fried with coconut and red chilli.

  • Potato Fry (Urulai Kaara Kari)

    உருளைக்கிழங்கு வறுவல்

    Baby potatoes in chilli and turmeric, fried crisp and golden.

  • Vazhakka Chips

    வாழைக்காய் சிப்ஸ்

    Thin raw banana slices, fried to a fragile amber crunch with salt and pepper.

  • Appalam

    அப்பளம்

    Sun-dried lentil wafer, fried to a blistered, shattering crisp. Small to medium size.

  • Paruppu Vadai

    பருப்பு வடை

    Crisp toor dal fritters, studded with whole peppercorns and curry leaf.

  • Puli Saadham (Tamarind Rice)

    புளிசாதம்

    Tamarind rice coated in fried peanuts, mustard seed and dried chilli.

    Contains nuts
  • Chappathi / Phulka Roti

    சப்பாத்தி

    Soft whole-wheat flatbreads, blistered briefly over an open flame.

  • Paneer Butter Masala

    பன்னீர் பட்டர் மசாலா

    Cottage cheese in a rich, buttery tomato gravy with kasuri methi.

    Contains nuts & dairy
  • Curd Rice

    தயிர் சாதம்

    Cool, lightly set yoghurt folded into rice, tempered with mustard and curry leaf. The closing note.

    Contains dairy
  • Mango Pickle

    மாங்காய் ஊறுகாய்

    Aged mango cured in mustard, fenugreek and gingelly oil. Use sparingly.

  • Mango Lassi

    மாங்கோ லஸ்ஸி

    Sweet mango blended with cool yoghurt, cardamom and a touch of rose water.

    Contains dairy

First Time at the Table

Eight small courtesies. None required — all quietly observed.

  1. 01

    Help yourself, buffet style

    This is a self-serve Tamil wedding buffet. Collect a plate, spoon and fork at the start of the line, and move along unhurried. Take small portions — you can always return for more.

  2. 02

    Breakfast — start with the tiffin

    Begin with idly, medhu vada and mini uthappam on your plate. Spoon sambar (gotsu) generously over the idly and vada. Place the three chutneys — coconut, pudhina, tomato — in small mounds alongside for dipping.

  3. 03

    Breakfast — pongal and podi

    Add a scoop of pongal next. Drizzle a little milagai podi mixed with oil on the side of the plate and dab each bite of idly or pongal into it. Finish breakfast with pineapple kesari as the sweet note, and a tumbler of filter coffee or tea.

  4. 04

    Lunch — open with payasam

    At a Tamil wedding, the meal opens (not closes) with payasam. Take a small bowl of paruppu or vellam payasam first, then move on. The sweets — mysorepak, jangiri — sit beside it.

  5. 05

    Lunch — build the rice plate

    Serve white rice in the centre of the plate. Pour paruppu over it and add a small spoon of ghee. Eat this first mouthful plain — it is the traditional opening of the meal. Beans paruppusili, potato fry, vazhakka chips, appalam and paruppu vadai sit around the rice as accompaniments.

  6. 06

    Lunch — the rice procession

    Follow this order: paruppu rice → sambar rice → puli saadham (tamarind rice). Take a fresh helping of rice each time. Chappathi with paneer butter masala can be eaten on the side, or as a course of its own before the rice.

  7. 07

    Lunch — close with curd rice

    Curd rice is always the final savoury course — it cools and settles the meal. Pair it with a small spoon of mango pickle. Sip mango lassi alongside or after to finish.

  8. 08

    Spoon, fork and pace

    Use the spoon for rice, sambar, payasam and curd rice; the fork helps with chappathi, vadai and dry items. Eat slowly between courses — a Tamil wedding meal is meant to be savoured, not rushed.

 

The gift of food, considered the highest gift of all. May this meal carry the blessing it was made with.

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